I don't know if this is annoying me coz I already want to divorce H or if this is another piece of evidence why we aren't right for each other.
Background, been together 20 yrs & many DC.
H spent hours this afternoon seemingly asleep out in front of fire (in the dark) while I cooked a Christmas evening meal roast (our adult DC helped & asked for).
When we served up food, H spent 20 minutes ignoring his plate & instead cleaning the hob. The kitchen is his domain, he does 85% of all cooking. I was glad to scrub the hob, but don't get the chance. I think he's eaten now but is bashing around kitchen tidying up things how he likes. He's not talking or engaging with anyone. Me & DD are knocking back prosecco & youngest is watching silly films.
H has been in an especially black mood for about 10 days now. It's just childish & rest of us mostly ignore him, but this is longer lasting than usual.
Is this situation...
"Tired man doing the washing up since someone else cooked the meal. He's understandably fussy about the kitchen organisation since he does most the cooking, it's his little kingdom."
or
"Passive aggressive git wants to make a point how much he hates us all."
I can't tell any more.