Wedding anniversary today

[MrsDarcy4092]

Dear all

I separated from my husband almost two years ago and it was the right decision but that doesn’t make today any easier. The hopes and dreams that I once had etc etc
But I’m going to spend the day preparing for an interview and maybe watch a nice movie and chill out. And think it’s ok to be sad today. I didn’t get married wanting to one day be separated so it’s ok to mourn that.

Any wise words for getting through today?

My first anniversary since my split was on Friday. I just tried to ignore the day and keep busy. I avoided all Facebook memories etc, unfortunately I had to see ex as he picked the the kids up for the weekend. I went to the gym straight after then went to bed. I think the key is stay busy!!

I'm dreading this already (mine isn't until June) but I'm going to try and plan a girls weekend away

That’s a great idea! My first one following our separation I found out my husband was in Cuba with his new girlfriend on a two week holiday !! This one was definitely easier . Lovely idea to plan a day surrounded by people who love you