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chlojoe9 · 15/10/2019 21:30

Hello basically my child’s father had been doing drugs behind my back and lost his head and started to be violent towards me he does have adhd he had never physically touched me untill a week after we had split up I told my hv and I started to get a injunction I rang ss on two occasions because he said he was in contact with them when he wasn’t.ss told me they aren’t taking any action so I stopped my little girl from seeing him but it affected her a lot. So I decided instead of getting a injunction I got a undertaking from the court as he is taking appropriate steps to changing his life he is attending drug meeting and getting on medication for adhd I’m just scared that if I let him see my little girl social will take my child away I haven’t yet told my hv that I have had the undertaking I’m really scared (no hate please)

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BillHadersNewWife · 16/10/2019 03:06

Weren't you given a visit by a social worker? Or put in touch with a support worker?

chlojoe9 · 16/10/2019 10:54

Nope

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Otter71 · 16/10/2019 15:11

Have you tried contacting the local women's centre? I think they will be good here. The way this reads, you tried to protect yourself and DC from him but he threatened you to stop you carrying it through. You need the injunction and you need to get input from your local social services. Be strong!

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