I’m 30 and I just got dumped by my narcissistic ex. It was a long time coming and I had broken up with him several times previously but always gone back. He was highly toxic, he cheated and lied, he was always complaining and negative about everyone around him and he often made me feel like I wasn’t enough. I know the relationship was bad for me but we shared a house and I’m paying off a large amount of debt so I’ve had to move back in with my parents for a while and I feel like a huge failure. I have gone no contact straight away as I know he will be back around soon but I keep having moments of weakness where I want to unblock him and talk to him, to tell him how much he’s hurt me. Has anyone ever dated and broken up with a narcissist who can shes some light on how they got over the obsession? It feels like a very long dark tunnel :(