After multiple people telling me DH is emotionally abusive & most likely narcissistic, it finally hit home yesterday when he minimised everything that he’d done as not as bad as I make out, I found he’d then changed the password on the pc & said me saying, for a fleeting second, I thought he was going to hit me in a recent argument was a cheap tactic! No emotion as in he would never do that, just accused me of living in a fantasy world.
We are going to have to sort the practicalities of living in the same house until we can sell it as neither can afford to leave & it’s just all so shit.