H and I split 5 months ago and things are amicable and we're all adjusting slowly. But he stayed in the family home and we've just agreed to sell. And I've just ordered a duplicate marriage certificate as I've heard it's helpful to have a copy once you're divorced. And applying for the divorce is next on my to do list. And it's all feeling very real and sad. I don't know why I'm posting. Maybe just for a handhold as I don't have many people to ask for emotional support irl 