My stbxh has been working away since we split and only back at weekends. He has this week started working locally again. Kids are now on summer holidays and I know that he is going to be asking to pop round during the day to see them. Please help me think of some responses to say no in a nice way. I dont want him popping in and out whenever he's bored.
As a footnote I did ask him to take a whole three days of work during the summer holidays to help me out with DC and he said no.