Dd (9) with exh - constantly pushing boundaries only to say I'm telling dad, want to go to dads etc.
Multiple conversations between exh and I about support both ways when consequences are imposed i.e grounding, no TV etc.
Every single time - exh panders to dd, says she can go to him on my weekend etc because she doesn't like the consequences of her earlier actions even though fully explained at the time of wrongdoing.
How do I approach this? Is there anything I can do?