I have been in a difficult and dysfunctional relationship with my husband for about 4 years. I finally said I wanted separation / divorce 6 months ago which he refused to accept. He won’t move out of the property (and I don’t trust him to sell so also don’t want to leave) and progress has been slow. We are now seeing serious behavioural problems in our son which I think are signs of anxiety, confusion and instability (building over several years). I know our son will be aware of issues, but he doesn’t know about the divorce. I think we need to tell him, but have no idea how to convince my husband or how to go about it. Any thoughts or advice welcome. X