Not sure how much more I can take

[mumof3boy]

April 2017 we separated...STILL living in the same house....

Child arrangements order scheduled for March for him to put in place a prohibited steps order and apply for 50% custody...

Final hearing on financial settlement isn’t until June...

He’s now been signed off work with stress longish term and is around all the time and my stress levels are on the up again...

How on earth do people get through this???? Everyday is a struggle once more, just when I thought i was doing well...

You've been living in the same house with your ex for nearly 2 years!?
That sounds atrocious.
I managed 3 weeks with my ex while he found a new place and it was awful.
Do you have separate living space at least?
Can't he move in with his parents/family?

It's no wonder you're stressed. 2 years is a long time to live with an ex. I did that for 8 months and it was trying. The ability to heal and grow is greatly hindered.

I think the best ways are to take it one day at a time, be sure you set boundaries, know this is temporary, and to plan something nice/fun when all is done and dusted to celebrate. At least this is how I do it.