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Feels like the end!

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Lonely4 · 28/11/2018 09:55

Any advice on what to do please? I feel my marriage is coming to an end, I feel constantly anxious with a massive knot in my stomach. Husband has been distant for a while and has told me he isn’t in love with me as I’ve put on weight and haven’t looked after myself! We’ve been together for 27 years and have 2 wonderful boys, he’s all I’ve known since I was 16, what do I do? He won’t talk to me, won’t cuddle me, even tho I’ve just had a major operation! I feel so alone and sad and don’t know what to do! Certainly don’t feel like celebrating Christmas but have to for my boys! Any help/advice, should I see a doc and get some help, counselling? Never thought this would happen to me, we had so many future plans now I feel my world is about the end!

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Trudeau25 · 05/12/2018 23:08

-Lonely4
So sorry you’re going through this. I’ve had a similar thing happen to me. Husband of 24 years (together 27) told me a few months ago that he wasn’t happy-didn’t feel the same way/no spark. Agreed he would try and work on the relationship, but refused to go to counseling and really didn’t give it a proper try. Just me running around trying to “reconnect” while he continued to distance himself. He decided a couple of weeks ago that he was leaving then went overseas for a work trip. Haven’t even told the kids yet-15,18,20yrs. How old are your boys?

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