So DH and I have decided to separate - no harm done on either side, we still care about each other very much, but there's been no spark for years. No sex for four years!
Since having the "chat", we are still living in the same house. We have two small DC (5 and 8) who aren't aware of what's going on. I don't know what the next steps are!
Neither of us has any savings etc to be able to move somewhere else - and neither of us wants to leave the children.
Has anyone been in this situation and what have you done?