Hi, Im new to this site so apologies if I have started a thread in the wrong topic...Right, here goes....
I seperated from sons dad 7 years ago, without going onto too much detail, he isnt a very nice man. Hes a manipulator, likes to be in control, completely paranoid and thrives on power. There was a court order put into place about 5 years back, which is why contact happens (although the order has never really been followed on his part). I'm looking for some advice now, Whenever I disagree with the way he does things I get called a jealous bitter ex whose being awkward, which is as far from the truth as it could be, due to circumstances that happened a few years back he has moved back with his mum, which was great, because I knew my son would be well looked after. Anyway, now he has moved in with his girlfriend that he has known for less than a month, I have asked for his new address as my son stays overnight with him fortnightly, He is refusing to give me it, repeating his favourite line..."jealous biter ex...blah blah blah.... What do I do? Do I refuse over night contact? refuse contact altogether? Or have I got no right to know? I am exasperated with it all, i just want an easy life, If its not one thing its another and all Ive ever wanted is whats best for my son, but no one listens....aaarrrggghhhh!!!