Invisible

[Goingmad1234]

Does anyone feel that however they dress or whatever they say it is like you are not there. OH says he loves me if I ask but it’s like I don’t exist. It seems like nothing but I can’t cope

What they tend to notice is you not noticing them one of a sudden.

Oh has seen me cry and get upset about it but seems to find it funny and belittles me

We have a 15 year old daughter who I don’t what to see me upset but am I stupid for considering divorce

Have a chat with him about how you feel. Are there other things that upset you about him?

He generally makes me feel unwanted and lonely and it doesn’t seem to bother him

It is the way he generally makes me feel unwanted and lonely and it doesn’t seem to bother him

I have had a similar situation but my partner hasn't belittled me we've drifted apart and going our separate ways. My partner has said he cares about me but doesn't care about how I feel. From everything that's happened it's like he's lacking in empathy and the reason he says he cares is more about how things would affect him without me. He wasn't always like that I can't get upset in front of him, he will just ignore it etc. Talk to him and see what he has to say. You have to work out if things can change and if not how you are going to move forward.

Caring about how you feel, respecting and showing he loves you is so important otherwise what have you got.

OP.
For you