So sad

[goldiehawn1]

My marriage has broken down. It's affected my boys and my STBXH is being horrendous on every issue he can think of. Poisonous doesn't begin to cover it.

The legal letters are mounting up and I don't know what to do. It's all so overwhelming.

Added to the mix, I had a wonderful supportive partner who ceremoniously dumped me and I'm feeling as if it's the end of the world.

I don't know where to turn 🤷‍♀️. I don't feel strong enough for a fight but it's coming my way and I'm lost.

Is there any help out there?

Hello OP, that all sounds very tough, and I hope you have some friends and family around you. You might ask Mumsnet to move your thread to the Relationships topic: I think there are lots of supportive posters there who might have some good advice for you.

I hope you have some rl support at this time. It all sound very difficult for you. Hope you have a good solicitor. I am sure the £££ are adding up but if they can deal with some of the aggro it has to be worth it.
Do seek professional help if you think you would benefit from it.

Thank you ladies for your words of advice and support. Life can be so hard sometimes can't it.

I feel as if I am mourning the loss of my marriage along with my subsequent relationship together. Golly it hurts which is why I'm feeling so overwhelmed.

I don't know if it helps to know that I feel your pain as I am going through it too. I was just sat here, on my own at university, feeling similar feelings: completely overwhelmed, lost, confused and everything else. I'm just at the beginning - I'm scared too - marriage broken down and I have three boys, we haven't told them yet x

The giant tap. Be kind to yourself. Take each day as it comes and get lots of people around to support you. Hope you see the light at the end of the tunnel soon