How on earth can you quantify 50/50 care

[samesh1tdifferentday]

My exh is still aiming at 50/50 care and I knew this day would come my youngest ds burning up with temp and due to his dads later today do I keep him home in the family home with me where I'll be alone tonight and tuck him up or as Dad will probably request send him to his where there will be 5 other children to catch his germs☹️

50%

In fact yesterday I asked him for some dates for school holidays and he said " if you aren't coping just say" he wishes. I was simply trying to fill in my diary!