Applying for the absolute

[MissTeBe]

The nisi is back and my solicitor says I can apply for the absolute

Can my STBXH stop things at this point?

Realistically, no.

I’ve deliberately not applied for my absolute until we exchange contracts on the sale of the FMH.

Aecretsout, why’s that?

miss because my ex is a nasty horrible narc and each time I’ve stood up to him his abuse has escalated. I’m in control of this and he has no idea when I’m going to do it. The second he finds out I’ve done it he will escalate. Once we exchange on our house there’s not a damn thing he can do to change anything. It’s helping me to get through it knowing I hold the cards.