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He's gone - feels weird

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FreshFigs · 29/07/2017 00:25

After 8 months of having to live with my Wasband while the divorce progresses he's finally gone. I can't quite believe it. It's feels really really weird. I'm sat in my kitchen feeling stunned and empty. No regrets at all. It's just all rather strange.

When does it feel 'normal' again?

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Viking64 · 29/07/2017 07:42

My wife left last Saturday and yes it feels weird but a week on it still feels strange but not as bad as when she left.not had a chance to get into any routine yet so that will help I think

IrritatedUser1960 · 29/07/2017 07:46

I'm not sure but around 8 months in I'm feeling ok again.

madmother1 · 29/07/2017 07:48

It will get better. Let yourself be healed, slowly. Can you take yourself off to the cinema and a coffee or lunch for s treat today. I found keeping busy was good Flowers

Viking64 · 29/07/2017 08:40

I've quickly realised that I can do as much or as little as I want I can watch what I want without either my wife or myself watching tv in bedroom. It will take time but time really is a great healer

FreshFigs · 30/07/2017 20:16

Thanks all.

I've just been pottering around the house, in between doing nice things. Took the kids to the cinema today.

It doesn't help that the house is a tip and there are obvious gaps where possessions have been removed...

I'm sure I'll get there.

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