My husband is always threatening to leave, he puts me down and calls me really nasty names. Last night he didn't get his own way and the verbal abuse came out again. I did stick up for myself this time which shocked him but he says he's leaving. I don't want to leave our home but is it right that if the house is to big and he can't afford anywhere else then we have to sell it? Really don't know what to do. I've really looked after him and probably spoilt him. I feel so rejected. We have a daughter who is 7. He says I'll end up a lonley old woman without him.