Separation

[Laps24]

Please help we've been together for 21 years married for 11. We've got to a point were we have nothing in common. Don't do anything together both kids are grown up living at home and we have nothing to focus on. We love each other but are no longer in love we don't talk argue or shout just bottle it all up. I feel so low and a glorified housekeeper. I don't know what to do for the best

Laps you should post this in relationships or asked for it to be moved. A lot more traffic there to give you advice xxx

laps, you could ask for this to be moved to relationship board by reporting your post.

Do you enjoy your life away from your H? Are you feeling fulfilled within yourself? Separation maybe the answer but I would first look at ways in which you can improve your life. However if your H blocks or stops you getting the life you need then I think divorce is more likely.