Separation trying to make things fair!

[Chatty100]

Hi everyone,
For anyone who has been through a separation, how did you make it fair. I feel so pulled in all directions. When I speak to my ex I feel like I know what is a fair split but then solicitor and friends keep telling me to go for more. I sway between feeling like going for all I can get, to feeling like a money grabber!

Try and take the emotions out of it and think to the very long term future.

If you trust your sol then listen to their advice. Sure, you are their client but they will know what a Judge will be happy to sign.

If it's a messy divorce and you've got your friend on "your side" I'd be cautious in taking their advice.
It's not about screwing anyone over.