My divorce hearing is next week. The issue is in court since last 9 months and its going on since 2.5 years. My children are 5&8.
The father has started over pampering (spoiling) them since last 4 months. Buying useless toys, cycles, skateboards, n so many other useless stuff, once or twice every week. Feeding them out a lot of fast food. Not doing any serious stuff with them that needs discipline. I am doing all that part.
As a part time working mother. I do my work, all the "work" for my boys. Household work (as my ex doesn't do any single thing).
Somehow, suddenly i have started feeling the difference that my boys want to spend more time with him and not me.
What to do?