Wedding anniversary blues

[Helloandgoodbye]

After divorce do you ever take time to think back to the good times on your wedding anniversary? Or did you pack that emotional box up and now just remember how badly it ended. I'm not sure what's a healthy way to deal with it.

I did feel quite sad for a few years, remembering both the good times (wondering what could have been) and the bad times but last year it got to two days later before I even realised that I'd missed it.

Last yr on my wedding anniversary (seperated) I decided to spend the money I would have spent on it on myself and children. It will now be a day when I completely ignore 'memories' and have a treat day. Xxx