Sorry about TAAT sort of different angle
My STBXH of 15 years wants a divorce - I did not and pleaded with him to reconsider. Have just got my head round it kind of. My kids have left home. We have no children together but a traumatic MC several years ago. He now says he wants to move on find a younger woman and have a child. Says he still has feelings for me but has to be loyal to himself. WTH? AFAIK there is nobody else. He is being cruel, cold and detached. Living in same house SR. Not speaking. He bought us a small business for us both but now won't let me near it. Scary. Advice pls.