My husband left me out of the blue (after being moody and distant for months) after 32 years of marriage. I'm a full time carer to 2 adult children and I have a sixteen year old.
I am desperately trying to be practical and not emotional.
He has 3 part time jobs and his gross pay is about £1800 a month, but he pays about £350 a month to pensions.
He has left me with no money and huge repair bills.
I think he has been planning this for a long time, because he has put all the bills in my daughters name and been feathering his own nest.
I have a solicitor appointment on Wednesday. Should I talk to my ex before I go and see the solicitor to see if he is going to play fair - or see my solicitor first?