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Divorce/separation

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How much contact will he get?

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Homely1 · 28/03/2015 17:34

DH is threatening court and we have a young DC. How much contact will he get? I'm scared that DC will be living half week here and there which is so disruptive

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 28/03/2015 18:42

Sorry but I've got no idea but I didn't want you to go unanswered. Have you spoken to anyone like the Citizen's Advice Bureau?

kittensinmydinner · 28/03/2015 18:44

How old is dc ? And what was the set up care-wise before you split ? Did he work full time and have eves weekends ? Or was he a part time carer ?

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Homely1 · 06/04/2015 22:49

DC does not go to DH at all yet. Has joint outings. DC is 2. As far as I know, DH is in full time work and lives 40 min away.

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MsColouring · 06/04/2015 22:52

Likely every other weekend and half the holidays ultimately. May need to work towards that e.g. single nights to begin with. A court is unlikely to grant 50-50 if your dc hasn't had any overnights yet. It is likely you will have to go to mediation before it gets to court.

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