I've been advised to apply to court for a shared residency order . My ex wants shared residency and that is what we planned to do informally but because I am the one moving out, the solicitor advised I should get this enshrined in law for my own protection.
If ex doesn't contest will it be granted without us having to go to court. I'm worried my ex will be asked to write a statement which might go against me in someway.
Do I stand to lose more by going to court? Do Ex and I have to stand up and argue our case. What exactly happens in these proceedings. I'm worried I might be opening a can of worms.
Could the court decide ex should have contact rather than shared residency?
Any advice would be appreciated.