I am a married SATM to two boys & I have a sexist, controlling, nasty husband.
he wasn't always this way but since having DC he has got worse- 'I sit on my fat ass all day', 'if I don't want to do my job in the house properly I should get one in the real world', 'he cheated because I wasn't paying attention to him' (DS2 was 1 1/2 months).
anyway, my point is I don't know where to start 
I would need to apply for benefits as I'm not currently working & a house- but I've never dealt with any of that :/
help or advice?