Dp and I are likely to split soon. We have 1yo dd. She's very close to me, he's a good dad but she spends much less time with him due to his work and other commitments. We live in my house, he has a flat that he's let out, he'd probably move back there on his own.
I would be comfortable with him visiting dd weekly, say Saturday morning for three hours he could take her out to the park etc. I suspect he'd be happy with this arrangement. I work three days a week, she goes to cm.
Would dp and I be able to make a custody arrangement like this without a solictor? What are the pitfalls, ie if dp decides he wants her overnight in future? What age so most children start overnight stays?
Tia