I've known soon-to-be xh for 17 years and married for almost 13 of them. Xh is away with his family in the UK & I'm here with the dc. Feels very odd... not that much more work though as h never lifted a finger, but still. Sad for dc, although they seem happy enough. Xmas is supposed to be a family time but we're right in the middle of the messiest divorce imaginable. Visitation rights denied to xh as well as access to the home, until court hearing. Sad.