Male perspective please?

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So just wanted to know from a mans point of view what things REALLY do you look for in a woman?
What makes you admire a woman and what is sexy to you about a woman?

not a man, but according to my new p, he thinks it is slobbing about the house in uggs and a kimono with no make up on, lol

It's different for every man, and it depends entirely on the woman. Probably the same things you look for in a man: funny, not hideous to look at ... It doesn't take much imagination. Generally, many men don't find intense neediness terribly attractive.

i think confidence is probably up there on the sexy top ten

Agree with Lou.

Lack of confidence is one of the many things stopping me from meeting anyone, and I can't ever see that changing.

it's catch 22 , you need to just try and find a way of breaking the cycle i think

How about that classic joke / deep insight into the male psyche:

When I was 14, all I wanted was a girl with big tits.

When I was 16, I dated a girl with big tits, but there was no passion. So I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college, I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with some stability.

When I was 25, I found a very stable girl, but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28, I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad, impetuous things and flirted with everyone she met. She made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some ambition.

When I turned 31, I found a smart, ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now I am 42, and all I want is a girl with big tits.

• Confident
• Funny
• Clever
• Feisty
• Active
• Strong
• Not unattractive (but that goes with "active", pretty much)

Err.

That's it.

lol daddy j

Big T*ts

So Flashman - 16 or 42?

DH thinks that it's confidence and enthusiasm in the bedroom.
He also likes big tits. He was in heaven when I was breastfeeding and an H cup.

16 or 42????

I am thick got it now.

Oh and add shaven bits!

Very entertaining DaddyJ

I reckon it's a bit more complicated though.

And I'm not gonna rehash the debate about shaven (or otherwise) 'bits'.

Or, maybe I'd just like to think it's more complex

I don't understand about 16 or 42 ??

how ling is a piece of string?