male opinion please

[Barnical]

Okay if you have had an affair or fling, and DW or DP asked you.. would you tel the truth?

And If you have done anything, but she thinks you might have, due to some evidence. how would you deal with it.??

thanks in advance x

I have not had an affair but I guess it would depend on how good the evidence is. If it is a pic clearly for example - admit and throw yourself on the mercy of her good will. If not can you cast doubt on the evidence?

Thanks flashman.. it's all down to evidence then.. x

I'm not a man... but IMHO... If it was a fling, meant nothing, stupid mistake etc, then as the wife I wouldn't want to know.

If it was an affair. Full blown physical and emotional relationship. I would want to know the truth and then we could have the discussions required to work out why it happened in the first place and if there's anything left to salvage of the relationship.

Sorry for butting in!

I would have thought so - if you have wiggle room take it - and then if you still want to stay with your wife - take this as a near miss and cut it off with the mistress.