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[Needsomeconfidence]

spilt up with my wife of 13 years after finding out she has been having an affair with multiple guys for some time , Iv known for months just needed the evidence but ended up with more than I wanted to see but she still won’t admit it !

Recently found out that she has had an abortion a week or so before we separated (obviously not mine )

it’s really knocked my confidence that I got her all wrong for all these years would never of thought she would do all this behind my back but seeing her lie so easily made me realise she is not the person I once knew .

now that’s off my chest, what’s the best sites to talk to women that are not scams it’s been a long time since I did anything like this and it’s definitely changed a lot.

Sorry for what you are going through. But how long have you been separated? It may be best to take some time for yourself after such a large life event

Focus on healing and rebuilding your life before trying to jump directly into a new relationship.

grocery store and church? not sites. when the time is right meet women in person. all online sites are relatively high risk for fraud.

Take some time out and focus on you, as looking to head straight into another relationship is unlikely to be the best thing for you.

Instead enjoy the new found freedom you have, book yourself a holiday, reconnect with friends but also be open to making new ones. if you have hobbies / interests maybe join a club or / and download the meet up app. There’s some great groups on there with like minded people. I met my partner through one of the events we both attended,