Another male perspective needed please

[windsmeup]

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Well, any man with a pulse notices an attractive woman, even if they are already with one... but there's noticing and there's popping your eyes out and letting your tongue slap to the floor, like the guys on "Ally McBeal" used to when the TrolleyGirl came round!! The latter is generally not a good idea.

As a side-note I have NEVER understood the blokes who get miffed if someone is "lookin' at their bird". I find it amusing if other men eye up DW's curvaceous figure... because it reminds me she's gorgeous and I'M the one taking her home!

I'd agree with UnquietDad on all points.

I'd not expect to get slapped for noticing an attractive woman but definitely if I was gawking or staring in a, "sorry dear, I was distracted, did you say something" manner.

The last point is always, always very satisfying! :-)

I actually get a bit freaked out that DH doesn't appear to notice ANYONE.

I have even asked him who he thinks is attractive etc and the question seemed to kind of stun him, like he hadn't even thought about it!

not normal imho...

Agree with UQD and HandyTrinkett - most men are fairly subtle about it though. I know plenty of men who use the "shades" method, but it's always funny when they get clocked when their sunglasses are on their heads in the evening!

It's even worse being oggled at. Openly. Happens ALL the time. Sick of it.

yes, it is effing rude and potentially unsettling. And the world is full of nice bottoms!! No need to oggle one in front of your dahling......