Sex question for the guys!!!

[hoolagirl]

Right you lot, advice needed.
Have been seeing dp for about a year and have noticed that he is not as 'quick' to be happy to see me, iykwim !! and takes 'longer'...... !
Not that i'm complaining about the longer bit ahem,
But to be honest its worrying me, does it mean he's going off me or is this just a natural progression??
In the beginning it was nearly over before it began he was so 'happy' to see me !!

Hi hoola.

tbh, not sure what the problem is, unless you have other pointers as him going offa you....

understand what you mean about a bit of a concern, BUT, would you wish it to be all over in secs. for the rest of your relationship??? The lasting longer bit is surely great, yes? and having him pleased to see you - if he was taking you for granted, no longer complimenting you, admiring your body, being 'attentive' in lots of ways in and out of the sack, then I'd worry....and...are you being unfair through insecurity? i.e. are you just as 'pleased' to see him as easily as you were when you first met??

Also poss. depends on whether sex may become 'same as'...tweeking things now and again ALWAYS helps, as you probably appreciate..

and also...a developing love and comfort with someone does tend to lead to a loss of urgency in the bedroom...so in that sense not coming home with a gun in his trousers every time CAN be a good overall sign of maturity and appreciating the whole circumstance, rather than focusing on the need to feel hot all the time.

Am I rambling or is this any sense to you??

obviously not.

Hi, it does kinda make sense and i guess it is through my own insecurity, i think!!
He does still pay me compliments as much as he always has, I have 'tweeked' things in the past, but not for a month or so, which is always great fun for both
I guess im just being slightly paranoid, i am always very happy to see him though, but then i have always had a higher 'need' than him, but its his fault for being gorgeous !!
Thank you for pandering to my insecurities !!