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Dirty Photos

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Weathergames · 20/03/2014 16:25

Hi male perspective please.

If you had gone away for a while after getting mad at your partner and in two minds as to whether to end it how would you feel if she sent you a dirty picture of herself?

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FastLoris · 20/03/2014 21:52


Keepithidden · 21/03/2014 09:23

It depends on the "two minds" thing.

If I was erring on the side of: "I don't want this relationship to continue" I wouldn't be horny. I'd be sad.

If I was erring in the other direction I'd be back like a shot!

LyndaCartersBigPants · 21/03/2014 09:53

Sounds like she's playing games - "look what you're missing".

If she wants to rescue the relationship from the brink, surely discussing the issue that caused the argument would be the mature thing to do.

I'd never send something intimate to my DP after a row for fear of rejection, so she seems to feel that she has the upper hand as you will forget about the argument if you see her naked.

Appears manipulative and cynical, or perhaps she just wants to make you smile? You know her best, how serious the row was, what the state of the relationship is like generally and whether she thinks the sight of her bits will make your penis override your brain.

KissesBreakingWave · 21/03/2014 10:20

What LyndaCartersBigPants said. The ones that think a shag'll make you overlook what a pain they are with their clothes on aren't worth the time or effort. Move your 'err' needle over to LTB.

normalishdude · 21/03/2014 10:20

Yes, probably horny. Although it depends on how mad I was and what for!

BoneyBackJefferson · 21/03/2014 18:41

Another vote for "she's game playing" here.

Frankly if she plays games with your mind you are better off out of it.

Trapper · 21/03/2014 18:44

He wants space. You should give it to him.

Trapper · 21/03/2014 18:46

I could have phrased that better!

I he has asked for some space the you should respect that, rather than invading it by sending dirty photos. Unless of course he is thinking of leaving you because you never send him dirty photos, in which case you should go for it!

rpitchfo · 25/03/2014 12:15

wait..are you sending the photo or have you received it?

TDada · 27/03/2014 12:36

Depends on whether I like her.

BreakingDad77 · 27/03/2014 14:16

Depends on how ruthless the guy is and wether its a ploy to get him back.

He might ignore it or double bluff and just have sex and run!

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