Am i losing a battle

[babycow38]

Me and Dex split in October 13, he has admitted to OW and wanting to carry it on. Becauuse of this i moved out into rented accomadation with two DD. It was his house but we had been together 16 years, i have tried over the past few months to be okay, but am strugling tonight, why would he just leave? without telling me anything? i have spent the last few days wanting to know just why??

Hi Babycow, I think you'd get a better (and possibly more accurate) response by posting this in the Relationships board.

Sorry no advice to offer though, I'm a bit crap with relationships so offering advice would be "the blind leading the blind".

I suspect he didn't want to say anything because what can he say? He knows he's done wrong and doesn't or didn't want to acknowledge his behaviour. Some men can't take responsibility for their actions and when they realise that there's nobody else to blame, they clam up.
Also, I may be wrong but if you've lived as his partner in the same house for 16 years, I'm pretty sure it doesn't matter who's name is on the deeds. You have rights. There's people on here who could clarify the situation for you.