You are not enoucouraged to socialise between ranks (farcical, and insulting, isn't it?)
Non officers are not allowed in the officers mess without permission. Ditto officers in the sergents mess, sargents in the corporals mess etc etc.
If we have a whole squadron function it has to be held in a local hotel.
The utterly crazy thing is that this goes over to the wives, who sometimes taken on their husbands rank (words cannot discribe how stupid I find this)
And it cuts both ways. I have had women drop me as friends when they found out that dh is an officer!
Everything is driven by rank, from the size of house you get, to where you can park on base, to whether you have fitted carpets in your house!
Still can't get used to the fact that people salute dh and call him 'sir'.
No 'tash on dh (tho mine is getting bushey ) and he is teetotal