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Clocks ticking... what should we do BC that we cant do AC?

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BadgerBoy · 03/03/2011 21:15

So anything we should be doing in the run up to d-day that we can't do after?

i.e. posh dinner, lads nights out, bike rides, weekends away, buy ipad2 etc.

Does life as you know it BC change AC?

Bit bit worried...

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MavisEnderby · 03/03/2011 21:16

Definitely changes.

Would do all of the above things:o

MavisEnderby · 03/03/2011 21:21

On the plus side once your child reaches ooh about 5 it is real fun and you can do loads of good stuff..build Lego Star Wars,take em to football,take em to watch kids films at the cinema,beat them at football in the park,teach em to ride a bike.The possibilities are endless,lol

Cicatrice · 03/03/2011 21:23

Be spontaneous.

meditrina · 03/03/2011 21:23

Spend 30mins uninterrupted in the loo with the newspaper.

givemesomespace · 04/03/2011 08:44

what Cicatrice said - 100% :)

eeore · 04/03/2011 12:37

sleep.

nocake · 15/03/2011 13:09

Go out for dinner..... a lot!

alexsdad · 15/03/2011 13:46

Travel. Especially to places where the hygine may be a bit dodgy. Surprising how throughts of how free, easy and relaxed you will be about such things change...

ANYTHING which involves going out together in the evening - be it meals, pubs, clubs, cinema, sports, whatever. Drinking to excess, together!

But on the whole, MavisEnerby has some excellent points. Start saving up for some of those Lego Star Wars kits now. They cost a fortune!

Kiwiinkits · 27/03/2011 02:18

Agree with the suggestion of travel to places with dodgy hygeine. Get all your travelling out of your system because when you travel with kids your itinerary pretty much always revolves around what they are into / can cope with.

lazysod · 27/03/2011 22:46

you advocate taking a pregnant lady to places with poor hygiene?

hermitcrab · 28/03/2011 11:39

appreciate every single time you get in the car, start the engine, and just pull away. This simple procedure will take at least 10 minutes once you're trying to clip in car seats after digging through the pile of childrens rubbish to get at the clip.

Kiwiinkits · 28/03/2011 15:19

Yep it's easy to be a pregnant traveller - just make sure she drinks bottled water and doesn't eat the salad and she'll be fine. It really can't be easy to trek around far and away places with young kids so I really think get your travelling in while you can.

franksadad · 28/03/2011 19:12

and drinking to excess alexsdad.. might be on your own with that one!
although sainsburys do a huge selection of alcohol free wines now.. cant say i see the point though id rather have ribena tbh

traveller1981 · 05/04/2011 15:13

New dad to be here and first post!

I'm liking this thread! I also like the idea of getting the new iPad before the baby arrives, but alas, all my money seems to be going on Mamas and Papas baby stuff! Bye bye gadget fund. :(

franksadad - totally agree with the alcohol free drinks. As much as I like beer etc, the alcohol free versions just don't taste the same. I would rather have a ribena. :)
I seem to have inadvertently stopped drinking since I found out my partner was pregnant as we don't have those Friday night beers and all that anymore. It's not as fun to drink on your own. I'm sure that will change come summer though.

2cats2many · 05/04/2011 15:17

Get some sleep. Lots of sleep. Stay in bed and read books all weekend before its too late. You can't underestimate how much of battlefield lie ins become after the baby is born, so relish it while you can.

luluzulu · 05/04/2011 20:06

2cats2many- best advice ever! i'm definatley getting my lie -ins as i know i'm probs not gonna get another for a few years

BelfastBloke · 07/04/2011 08:37

Agree with the suggestion of travel to places with dodgy hygeine.

shrinkingnora · 07/04/2011 08:42

Have a hot drink while it is still hot.

Go to the pub in the afternoon and then have one of those lovely drifty afternoon/evenings where you end up ringing friends to join you and just chatting until the small hours without having to be constantly aware that your babysitter is costing you £5 per hour and one of you has to be relatively awake and responsible by 6am

cottonreels · 18/04/2011 20:48

cinema

cottonreels · 18/04/2011 20:48

and write a whole sentence uninterupted Grin

Prunnhilda · 18/04/2011 20:53

Spend a whole day (or more) just doing whatever you want, whenever you want. Eat when you're hungry and go where you want, at your own pace.

You won't really miss this for the first few months, but once you have a child who eats food you will be tied to the tyranny of the mealtime in a way you never were before. For bloody years!

hairman · 22/05/2011 21:16

Register for a nursery place if you live in London.
Enjoy a room that doesn't have kiddie detritus.

nocake · 24/05/2011 16:52

Read in bed. Both my DW and I are dreaming of the day DD moves to her own room and we can put the lights on in the bedroom at night.

Peetle · 06/06/2011 10:22

"all my money seems to be going on Mamas and Papas baby stuff". Get used to that, traveller 1981. You think you're just "buying stuff for when the baby comes" but you're actually now shopping the way you will until they leave home. And probably longer.

Oh and go skiing, if you're a skiier. I've not been for almost 5 years and I get withdrawal symptoms from about December to March every year. I have hopes of getting my 4.5 year old twins on snow next year, finances permitting.

traveller1981 · 20/07/2011 10:18

My partner plans to get our little'un on the slopes as soon as possible, but again, that will be finances permitting!
I love skiing and we missed out on our last chance this year as we had just got back from a 2 week trip to South Africa for my mates wedding.

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