Any ground rules I should be aware of?

[bobbyzee]

I have just posted in a thread on the Relationships thread and been met by a volley of vitriol from one poster on two separate occasions. I don't believe I was being provocative, I merely offered a male perspective on porn and its use.

Have I made a schoolboy error? Should I simply remain schtum?

If you think that was a volley of vitriol ( from math I assume?), you must be very easily offended.

That was fluffy bunny stuff in comparison to most porn threads.

It didn't help that you were spectacularly missing the point of the thread.

Was the point to agree that the OP's boyfriend was a knobhead (which I did)?

Or was it the fact that I drew a distinction between watching porn and getting someone on webcam to perform acts?

Or was it that I had an opinion?

I assure you that I am not easily offended. I just prefer to enter debates where the gender of a poster is not an issue and that all views are heard with equal respect.

wrong site then tbf

Looks like it! hahaha.

maybe not wrong site ( not seen that thread) btw.

Just stay cool and don't react to every provocation, as you may see it. Grow a hard skin. Don't go on the breast-feeding threads. Go to Style and Beauty ONLY if you are a buyer for a fashion house and know what you are talking about. Get used to typing "thanks for your observation on my post. I'll have a think about what you have said.". Don't expect to change anyone's opinion, tho' you may.

as a last resort, stick to the footie thread.

Mansplaining anything will get you the look

nah, just the look though unexpressed.

Which thread was it, bobby?

There's a massive distinction between regular porn and webcam porn, I'd've thought.

"I just prefer to enter debates where the gender of a poster is not an issue and that all views are heard with equal respect." You are young, but you will learn....

Best to avoid heated threads eventually it becomes discussion of extreme sides with no middle ground.

Go and Mansplain in the feminism section about porn, we'll never hear from you again.

It's just the usual misandrist nonsense, I shouldn't worry about it.