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Trigger warning - has anyone reported historic CSA? Any regrets?

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gotmyparcel · 28/10/2026 19:35

Hello, I’m looking for experiences directly from people who have actually been through this. No offence, but I don’t want to hear from people who haven’t been through this who think I should because it’s “the right thing to do”.

For a multitude of reasons I have never repeorted it, never had the strength or the headspace. However last year my abuser was sentenced to 4 years in prison for CSA related offences - not anything to do with me. I’ve had what feels like a bit of an epiphany today that perhaps now is the right time. I know it could potentially be quite harrowing and I suspect he would plead not guilty. Just wanted to hear any experiences about whether you’re glad you reported, or otherwise. Thanks

OP posts:
DontLiveByTheClouds · 28/10/2026 20:45

Yes.
No.
Helped me heal.
He went to prison. Reported it 29 years after it happened.

MinLynn · 28/10/2026 21:59

I did not. I thought about it. He was probably 12 . I was so young it would be difficult for most to believe I could remember it.

It was now half a century ago. We moved not long after. It would be shocking if he didn’t have other victims.

It came up for me recently due to Markle. I wondered what would happen if I reported it now. I’m not interested in anything but having it on the record in case it helps convict him if someone else were to come forward.

MinLynn · 28/10/2026 22:04

An update; he’s dead. I’m actually quite happy.

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