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Staff Stealing from me

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Poodlesandnoodles · 14/05/2018 22:44

Hi all, I'm new to this so I'm not aware if I'm doing it right!

Ok so here goes (you may want to grab a cuppa ...or Gin, it's a long one)

I own a wellbeing clinic and took on my husband's step sister 18 months ago, she's fantastic. Customers love her. I love(d) her. I've done everything for her. Trained her to a high standard, employed but when no one else would, (little experience + older = costly) I've even babysat her kids when her partner walked out 6 months ago, albeit for one weekend!

In September I believed I had miss placed my designer Sunnies but I was very certain they were in my reception desk.

Then two months ago I realised a bangle my husband bought me when I lost my daughter last year had been taken, I had done a massage and took it off, placed it in a drawer and forgot for the rest of the day. I was heartbroken, I thought it was a client but couldn't prove it! (No CCTV due to it being an intimate waxing /massage room)

And now, I have realised my leather jacket has been taken from the cloakroom and when I mentioned it she said she had never seen me in a leather jacket! 😤

And these things are just the things I know about!

She's the only staff member to be there the whole duration of the thefts.

Police have logged it all, but are as much use as a chocolate teapot. And have just advised I watch hours of CCTV....but all I have is circumstantial!

I believe the only way to get her it to trap her. Do any of you lovelies have any ideas?
I'm going away next weekend for our anniversary so wondered if I can do it then, maybe mention the CCTV is down so to keep an extra eye out? Wink wink nudge nudge!

I must have proof if I don't this could cause an absolute shit storm in our family!!!

Please help!

OP posts:
Nb65988 · 26/05/2018 06:26

You need proof u shouldn't have had bangle onto work if she's taken it that's disgusting thing to do complain that u can't afford to run CCTV anymore and u think it's putting of customers and see what happens

Byebyebye · 26/05/2018 06:28

You hoping you’d get different answers this time op?

You had plenty of good advise.

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