At least the media coverage of these cases has shifted towards identifying the real victim in these murders by fathers.
When Martin McCarthy killed his 3 year old daughter and then himself in 2014, I'll never forget hearing a radio presenter on Newstalk said 'That poor man, what must have been going through his mind in those last moments...'
and members of the local community defended the murderer - 'lovely man, wouldn't hurt a fly' - and turned against the child's mother.
When Alan Hawe - 'school vice principal, pillar of the community' - killed his wife and three sons in 2016, and then killed himself, the family of his wife had to campaign to have her referred to in reports - 'Her name is Clodagh'.
RIP Oisín and my heart goes out to his family.