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Referendum!

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springbrigid · 09/02/2024 11:27

Anyone inclined to give an opinion? I am leaning towards a yes/no vote, the yes to remove what I see as sexist language in the constitution, the no because the government are so appalling in terms of providing services and rights to disabled citizens and I feel the clause is paternalistic and pushes care on families yet again

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Abhannmor · 07/03/2024 09:26

DanielGault · 06/03/2024 17:42

I'd say so, that is particularly worrying. Although it's not as if that's not going on in reality anyway, care services are atrocious in this country. My DD is preparing a PowerPoint on the arguments for and against in the ref, I was just with her discussing them. Between myself, herself and my H, we were talking ourselves in circles. For a referendum, I am amazed how little discussion and information there has been. I'm hoping for a low enough turn out that they have to do it a second time, properly.

Triggered a memory there. I knew a young lad who had to do literally everything for his ma. She had Alzheimers. His older brothers and sisters had emigrated and the father was dead. The lady herself was only in her 50s when she died. That was before 2000. You'd hope social care had improved. But has it. I - almost - can't believe what Leo said. It's like Sunak not knowing how to use a debit card. They really inhabit a different planet.

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 09:27

@DanielGault

I hear you, they are just a pale shade of grey and no one seems to have the skill to want to change things.

It's one big huge party, but different shades of grey

With a few lone independents dotted around.

If I had a Healy Rae type character in my constituency I would vote for them, fairy forts and all.

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 09:30

I wonder is there any stats on child carers in this country?

There are definitely kids that take care of a incapacitated parent, get themselves to school come home and start all over again.

DanielGault · 07/03/2024 09:31

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 09:30

I wonder is there any stats on child carers in this country?

There are definitely kids that take care of a incapacitated parent, get themselves to school come home and start all over again.

Kids don't vote so they probably don't bother their holes collecting that information.

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 09:40

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 09:13

@VoteNONO

There is an argument to be had they are both right.

I watched that twice and the words used are clever. They both technically are telling the truth.

Granted it's purely semantics.

LV said durable is in other EU countries but ROG said while durable is that n other EU country just not in the context they are proposing.

Semantics but they will use it.

I'd love to know what countries recognise durable relationships!
As I said one part of the relationship might consider it steady & solid, the other part is having fun, handing in there but won't commit!

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 09:47

it is concept which other EU countries recognise durable relationships which would the key to bringing that whole argument down.

springbrigid · 07/03/2024 09:47

Why is that woman calling herself 'Countess' and invoking Countess Mankiewicz in terms of the referendum? The actual Countess sent her only child to be raised by her parents.

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Ceirseach · 07/03/2024 09:52

Sorry, you've lost me @springbrigid. Who's that?

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 09:56

https://twitter.com/caulmick/status/1765513490679181709/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1765513490679181709&currentTweetUser=caulmick&mode=profile

Thought this was a powerful response on care during last nights debate.
Wouldn't agree on all of Aontú's policies but they are the only credible opposition we have along with the independents.

https://twitter.com/caulmick/status/1765513490679181709/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1765513490679181709&currentTweetUser=caulmick&mode=profile

StephanieSuperpowers · 07/03/2024 09:58

springbrigid · 07/03/2024 09:47

Why is that woman calling herself 'Countess' and invoking Countess Mankiewicz in terms of the referendum? The actual Countess sent her only child to be raised by her parents.

It's an organisation and they look at several different issues affecting women.

Abhannmor · 07/03/2024 09:59

Countess is the name of the organisation. Presumably because Markiewicz was the first woman elected to Parliament and the leader of Cumann na mBan.

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 10:09

It is after Markiewicz. "The Countess didn't fight for this".

They have had some successes, including keeping words women and mother in maternity and abortion legislation

Campaign was #Those words belong to us.

They also with Peadar Tobin drafted a proposal to prevent biological born men being incarcerated in women's prisons regardless on their gender ID.

The founder (can't remember her name) Laoise??? I think, is a lawyer or barrister and a mother.

Amazingly the so called mother in the home clause didn't hold her back

Go figure

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 10:10

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 09:56

https://twitter.com/caulmick/status/1765513490679181709/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1765513490679181709&currentTweetUser=caulmick&mode=profile

Thought this was a powerful response on care during last nights debate.
Wouldn't agree on all of Aontú's policies but they are the only credible opposition we have along with the independents.

That didn't open for me

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 10:32

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 10:09

It is after Markiewicz. "The Countess didn't fight for this".

They have had some successes, including keeping words women and mother in maternity and abortion legislation

Campaign was #Those words belong to us.

They also with Peadar Tobin drafted a proposal to prevent biological born men being incarcerated in women's prisons regardless on their gender ID.

The founder (can't remember her name) Laoise??? I think, is a lawyer or barrister and a mother.

Amazingly the so called mother in the home clause didn't hold her back

Go figure

I love The Countess. Exactly the act didn't hold Maria Steen back either!

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 10:46

Dublincailin · 07/03/2024 10:10

That didn't open for me

I'll try & find it again in a different format, it's very informative. It cements why both bills should be rejected.

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 10:53

@Dublincailin I can only find the twitter link. He's basically saying that the government have the surplus money to pump into care now but they are choosing not to. And striving isn't just isn't good enough. Toibín is an able dealer. Although I felt Norma did better than expected last night. She certainly put more effort & energy into her arguments than McEntee.

https://twitter.com/caulmick/status/1765513490679181709/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1765513490679181709&currentTweetUser=caulmick&mode=profile

https://twitter.com/caulmick/status/1765513490679181709/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1765513490679181709&currentTweetUser=caulmick&mode=profile

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 11:21

Another excellent tweet from Tóibín. Where is Mary Lou? Where are Sinn Féin? What type of opposition party are they? Their silence speaks volumes.

Aontú & the Independents are the only ones rising to the challenge!

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OchonAgusOchonOh · 07/03/2024 11:27

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 11:21

Another excellent tweet from Tóibín. Where is Mary Lou? Where are Sinn Féin? What type of opposition party are they? Their silence speaks volumes.

Aontú & the Independents are the only ones rising to the challenge!

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That is actually shocking. So vote yes and we will give you money. Vote no and you get nothing. So basically, they are trying to buy votes as well as lying about the impact of a yes vote. There is absolutely nothing, other than a lack of willingness, preventing them from providing more money for carers right now.

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 11:32

Yes @OchonAgusOchonOh I tweeted a clip from the debate last night above where Tóibín challenges Foley about all the surplus money they have that they could give to carers but won't & why aren't they doing so immediately?
Also Maria Steen said this referendum is costing the taxpayers 23 million which could be spent on building care facilities.
The lies & false promises from the Yes campaign have been staggering this week.

DeanElderberry · 07/03/2024 11:48

Abhannmor · 07/03/2024 09:26

Triggered a memory there. I knew a young lad who had to do literally everything for his ma. She had Alzheimers. His older brothers and sisters had emigrated and the father was dead. The lady herself was only in her 50s when she died. That was before 2000. You'd hope social care had improved. But has it. I - almost - can't believe what Leo said. It's like Sunak not knowing how to use a debit card. They really inhabit a different planet.

They have a money-saving solution to that coming down the tracks. People told me I was being alarmist. I'm certainly alarmed.

https://www.rte.ie/news/politics/2024/0307/1436433-assisted-death/

Committee to recommend legislation for assisted dying

An Oireachtas committee is to recommend that legislation is introduced to allow for assisted dying if a person has a terminal illness and has only a short time to live.

https://www.rte.ie/news/politics/2024/0307/1436433-assisted-death

OchonAgusOchonOh · 07/03/2024 11:51

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 11:32

Yes @OchonAgusOchonOh I tweeted a clip from the debate last night above where Tóibín challenges Foley about all the surplus money they have that they could give to carers but won't & why aren't they doing so immediately?
Also Maria Steen said this referendum is costing the taxpayers 23 million which could be spent on building care facilities.
The lies & false promises from the Yes campaign have been staggering this week.

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You really have to wonder how stupid they think the electorate is.

Maybe don't answer that. It would be too depressing.

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 11:55

@OchonAgusOchonOh the news in most of the papers today is about all the cuts to SEN hours in primary schools. This is disastrous for families & children who are getting nothing as it stands & more hours are bring taken away. How can they be trusted on either act? They do think the electorate are simpletons & that we should vote yes through their virtue signalling flag waving & "progressivness".

VoteNONO · 07/03/2024 12:00

https://www.rte.ie/news/education/2024/0212/1431826-ireland-education/www.rte.ie/news/education/2024/0212/1431826-ireland-education/

How can the government promise carers extra money when they taking very valuable SEN hours off the most vulnerable in our schools.
Michael Martin & Helen McEntee were appealing to all on the debates to "think of the children".
What about these children who are having these very valuable, precious SEN hours removed from them? Do these children & their education not matter?
I wish Tóibín had pressed Norma Foley on that last night but obviously that's a different debate for another time.

Charity 'disturbed' over changes to education supports

A charity that supports children with intellectual disabilities, and their families, has said it is "deeply disturbed" by a change the Department of Education has made to the allocation of additional teacher supports from next year.

https://www.rte.ie/news/education/2024/0212/1431826-ireland-education

springbrigid · 07/03/2024 12:47

StephanieSuperpowers · 07/03/2024 09:58

It's an organisation and they look at several different issues affecting women.

Sorry, I must be wrong as I understood it was mainly one person and then various allies at different times. It's still strange to invoke the name of someone who in no way aligned her own life with the home or child-rearing.

I don't like their tactics nor that they contribute to gript which I feel has been responsible for stirring up a lot of racism and animosity.

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