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Should we spend £50k on our kitchen or consider moving?

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Doximama2 · 04/07/2026 18:57

In a bit of a quandary and any advice welcome. I’m 58, husband nearly 65. We have lived in our detached 3 bed house 34 years, brought the children up here. The only problem with the house is the kitchen; it’s a small galley style narrow one and I would love a wide open kitchen with an island. We have a big conservatory off the kitchen and have had some people in to look at knocking the kitchen wall down and making one big kitchen with dining table and sofa, tv etc. We think this will come in at around £50k as having new boiler and a decent kitchen with all appliances, quooker tap, inbuilt everything, new doors etc. Our quandary is is this reasonable or should we move? I am reluctant to do this as we like where we are, garden not overlooked, near town centre and beach, all 5 mins walk away. It’s a 30’s house so rooms bigger than new build apart from kitchen. Having looked at what’s around on sale it’s either no character new build or houses like ours that need everything doing, kitchen, bathroom, decor. We also have 35 years of stuff to sort if move and hubby is a bit of a hoarder in certain hobbies! Just putting feelers out for thoughts? We haven’t moved in 34 years so it’s all scary to me!!!

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Americasfavouritefightingfrenchman · 14/07/2026 09:05

I’d do the work but I would also make sure your quote covers everything/assume you need to allow at least 20% on top for contingencies. There often seems to be something that comes up with building work that you don’t realise is going to be needed until they uncover it mid project. Or you just slightly upgrade the fittings all over the place and the small extra amounts per item really add up.

Nousernameideaaga · 14/07/2026 09:22

Stay where you are.

MatchaTea1 · 16/07/2026 21:03

Doximama2 · 04/07/2026 19:56

Thank you; have so many people saying that’s too low but we have very reliable and decent contractors overseeing the whole job!

I don't understand people saying £50k is low, we are near London and did something similar for £30k a couple of years ago including all the building work and steel beam etc. We got our kitchen from DIY kitchens, a Qettle instead of a Quooker, a mid range floor and did the painting and decorating ourselves, and got mid range appliances from AO.com..

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 16/07/2026 22:29

My kitchen cost £30,000 15 years ago! There’s no way you get building work and a kitchen for £30,000 unless you diy a lot.

Sidebeforeself · 16/07/2026 22:37

This thread is making me feel very poor! £70k upwards for a kitchen renovation..where are you all getting your money from?!

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 16/07/2026 23:16

@Sidebeforeself By not moving! Not everyone has 100% mortgages. Many people borrow or get left money.

We had saved up - DH was a high earner. Now retired but we did a lot to the house to future proof it. It’s been worth it but it’s an expensive house.

DeedlessIndeed · 18/07/2026 18:09

I know it has been said a lot on this thread, but make sure you have reserves.

Quotes are estimates. And they never seem to estimate high! So a good contingency for if they uncover something along the way and it suddenly becomes 80K is a good idea.

DeedlessIndeed · 18/07/2026 18:11

MatchaTea1 · 16/07/2026 21:03

I don't understand people saying £50k is low, we are near London and did something similar for £30k a couple of years ago including all the building work and steel beam etc. We got our kitchen from DIY kitchens, a Qettle instead of a Quooker, a mid range floor and did the painting and decorating ourselves, and got mid range appliances from AO.com..

It depends on the house and what is uncovered during it. We had a knock through between our kitchen and dining room and it ended up north of 125K.

Granted a foundation collapsed and the building is listed, but you never know in old houses how these things pan out and OPs is 100 years old.

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