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I got caught shoplifting

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RoseBiscuitll · 09/09/2024 15:02

I really didn't know what topic to choose for this

I'm mortified, I got caught shoplifting in boots today, I was stealing baby milk and a facial moisturiser. I'm so ashamed of myself. It was in the city center aswell. They didn't call police but they took my details, took a picture and told me I can't return to the store again

Will this picture and my details go around to the other shops near by or will it just go to the other boots shops.

I can't believe I was stupid enough to do this! I'm so embarrassed and also feel really guiltily!

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NasiDagang · 10/09/2024 12:33

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:20

@NasiDagang Have you. Food bank food is fine I have used them in the past and iv also donated to them they have them in supermarkets so it's only stuff being sold in supermarkets. I'm poor anyway so I do buy the cheap tins of food in my regular shop where not all out here living the highlife on heinz and kellogs welcome to the real world

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I used to volunteer at my local food bank.

bringincrazyback · 10/09/2024 12:36

Mademetoxic · 09/09/2024 22:22

🙄 what if everybody stole? Then what would happen?

Odd argument. Showing compassion for OP and her situation isn't the same thing as saying 'hey everybody, it's fine to steal, let's all do it!'

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:36

NasiDagang · 10/09/2024 12:33

I used to volunteer at my local food bank.

So what's your problem with cheap items that the general public has donated taking into account people like me also buy these in our actual weekly shops as most working families can't afford to buy everything branded and there's absolutely nothing wrong with a tin of aldi baked beans or chopped tomatoes

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:39

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:36

So what's your problem with cheap items that the general public has donated taking into account people like me also buy these in our actual weekly shops as most working families can't afford to buy everything branded and there's absolutely nothing wrong with a tin of aldi baked beans or chopped tomatoes

Of course there's nothing wrong with non branded perishables. Who said there was?

bringincrazyback · 10/09/2024 12:40

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 08:01

Exactly this their is a lot of us on this page me included on benefits or who have been on benefits so we know full well she's getting far more then that so it's very difficult to help someone figure out their finances when their lying about them. It makes it even harder when their is a lot of poster who have never been on benefits who have this perception of people on benefits as poor single mums with starving babies when it's just not the reality.

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It is for some.

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:40

rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 10/09/2024 12:25

I am well aware of reality thanks, no need for your little jibe.
With prices increasing then there is even more need to budget and be frugal.
I am well aware of what poverty feels like and also what it feels like to be struggling on a day to day basis, so please don't assume to lecture me.
We're not all sitting in every towers lecturing down.

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With prices rising, there's even more need to go without food and heating.

You can't budget your way out of not having enough money to cover essentials.

RoyallyEFFEDOFF · 10/09/2024 12:40

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:36

So what's your problem with cheap items that the general public has donated taking into account people like me also buy these in our actual weekly shops as most working families can't afford to buy everything branded and there's absolutely nothing wrong with a tin of aldi baked beans or chopped tomatoes

This is precisely the problem. Food banks are purely reliant on donations from the public, who are often struggling themselves.
Where are the supermarkets, who are making record profits, playing a part in donating food. They can afford it.

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:41

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:39

Of course there's nothing wrong with non branded perishables. Who said there was?

@NasiDagang did

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:42

RoyallyEFFEDOFF · 10/09/2024 12:40

This is precisely the problem. Food banks are purely reliant on donations from the public, who are often struggling themselves.
Where are the supermarkets, who are making record profits, playing a part in donating food. They can afford it.

To be fair they do donate a lot only a small percentage is from the general public

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:44

bringincrazyback · 10/09/2024 12:40

It is for some.

I didn't realise the hospitals where full in this country of babies starving to death I thought we where in an obesity crisis

Wineandcupcakes · 10/09/2024 12:44

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:39

Of course there's nothing wrong with non branded perishables. Who said there was?

Always a good idea to read the thread 😂

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:44

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:44

I didn't realise the hospitals where full in this country of babies starving to death I thought we where in an obesity crisis

I'd be embarrassed to post something like that.

Wineandcupcakes · 10/09/2024 12:46

RoyallyEFFEDOFF · 10/09/2024 12:40

This is precisely the problem. Food banks are purely reliant on donations from the public, who are often struggling themselves.
Where are the supermarkets, who are making record profits, playing a part in donating food. They can afford it.

That’s not right, supermarkets give a lot.

https://www.thegrocer.co.uk/food-waste/are-the-supermarkets-getting-food-banks-right/597063.article

food bank one use

Are the supermarkets getting food banks right?

The number of food banks in the UK has rocketed - but the way in which supermarkets support them varies wildly

https://www.thegrocer.co.uk/food-waste/are-the-supermarkets-getting-food-banks-right/597063.article

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:46

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:44

I'd be embarrassed to post something like that.

Well when someone is writing babies are starving to death in this country when their not what do you expect me to write

Wineandcupcakes · 10/09/2024 12:47

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:44

I'd be embarrassed to post something like that.

Well that’s a bit rich given you’d not even read the thread 😂

rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 10/09/2024 12:48

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:30

They really need to start teaching in school basic lifeskills. Budgeting, finance, cooking on a budget, sewing, diy, first aid, common sense it would really help a lot of people as parents seem to be really dropping the ball on this stuff and nobody seems to know how to manage anymore.

Parents need to take some responsibility in this too though.
I do appreciate that not everyone has parents, or even parents who have these skills, but it shouldn't all be down to schools either.

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:48

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:41

@NasiDagang did

Hardly. She said they were cheap, which they usually are.

The food at a food bank isn't fantastic quality. That's not because it's non branded. It's because eating cheap random items of food, often that don't necessarily go together to make a meal, wears you out.

But you've already displayed a deep ignorance of the subject along with a critical failure to be able to be empathetic so I'm sure you'll be back with some excuse for why poverty is people's own fault.

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:49

Wineandcupcakes · 10/09/2024 12:47

Well that’s a bit rich given you’d not even read the thread 😂

I wish I didn't have to read this tripe, but I have.

bringincrazyback · 10/09/2024 12:49

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:44

I didn't realise the hospitals where full in this country of babies starving to death I thought we where in an obesity crisis

There is no logic whatsoever to any part of that statement.

rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 10/09/2024 12:50

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:40

With prices rising, there's even more need to go without food and heating.

You can't budget your way out of not having enough money to cover essentials.

Most people on benefits do have enough though, if they budget correctly. That's my point. It might not be a very nice budget, it might involve some very bland meals and other sacrifices, but it can be done. It does need a mindset change for many though.

rosesareredvioletsareblueaimverytiredandsoareyou · 10/09/2024 12:51

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:44

I didn't realise the hospitals where full in this country of babies starving to death I thought we where in an obesity crisis

An aside to the topic of the thread, but obese folk can actually be malnourished.

Wineandcupcakes · 10/09/2024 12:51

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:48

Hardly. She said they were cheap, which they usually are.

The food at a food bank isn't fantastic quality. That's not because it's non branded. It's because eating cheap random items of food, often that don't necessarily go together to make a meal, wears you out.

But you've already displayed a deep ignorance of the subject along with a critical failure to be able to be empathetic so I'm sure you'll be back with some excuse for why poverty is people's own fault.

Sometimes poverty is the persons fault. I grew up in poverty, I know. There is no fucking disputing it. Not always, a lot of people doing everything possible to get themselves out of poverty, but far far from everyone.

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:53

PaillettenBedeckt · 10/09/2024 12:48

Hardly. She said they were cheap, which they usually are.

The food at a food bank isn't fantastic quality. That's not because it's non branded. It's because eating cheap random items of food, often that don't necessarily go together to make a meal, wears you out.

But you've already displayed a deep ignorance of the subject along with a critical failure to be able to be empathetic so I'm sure you'll be back with some excuse for why poverty is people's own fault.

I have never said poverty is people's own fault. People don't need my empathy they need practical help which they have been given on this thread by being aware of services available, benefits to apply for and the importance of working to change their situation. Most foods can go together to make a meal it doesn't have to be fine dining it just has to be food. Food banks are for short term emergency use not a lifestyle

bringincrazyback · 10/09/2024 12:55

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:46

Well when someone is writing babies are starving to death in this country when their not what do you expect me to write

How do you know there are no starving babies? Do you work for the Office of National Statistics or something?

Differentstarts · 10/09/2024 12:55

bringincrazyback · 10/09/2024 12:49

There is no logic whatsoever to any part of that statement.

I was replying to someone saying some babies in this country are starving to death they are not

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