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Looking for another single mum to share house

16 replies

BeeBeaufort · 03/08/2023 12:50

Hello. I'm a Spanish single mother and a teacher moving to the UK around October (I already lived previously in London). My child will go to a nursery this year and I am looking for some West London areas to move in.

I have shared a house before, but having a child is obviously completely different and I understand myself the difficulties of co-living with other family, but I also see the benefits and mostly how much money we could save, so I would like to share a house with other single mum with a child of similar age ideally.

My salary is alright to rent a flat for both of us once he gets into state school, but at least temporally I prefer to share.

Please let me know if you're interested and feel free to share it with anyone interested in it. Thanks in advance.

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Glitterybee · 04/08/2023 21:01

What a fab idea! I am a single parent, although not in london and think this would be great for freeing up income.

bumping the post for you 😀

Monkelmo · 04/08/2023 21:40

I've read about this set-up. It looks such a great idea. Best of luck to you OP

hmrcwhatnow · 04/08/2023 23:18

great idea good luck!

LeavesOnTrees · 04/08/2023 23:22

That's a great idea. Although I will just say, being Spanish you might find cultural differences with your flatmate.

I'd talk about how you're raising your children with any future mums just to make sure you'll be compatible.

I'm mainly thinking bedtimes and meals.
Good luck !

Pamelia · 17/09/2023 21:19

Hi there, did you find somewhere to rent in west London? I’m also a single mum and looking for somewhere.

Kfrench85 · 27/10/2023 02:48

Im looking for a house share with another single mother also, unfortunately I’m in Manchester not London! It’s such a great idea for single parents who rent. Good luck with your search. 🙂

Vanemeeder · 16/06/2024 23:39

Hi, I’m looking to share a house, currently I’m living in Penrith ( Lake District) with my 6 year old son, I’m seriously struggling here to find any jobs ( there’s no activity’s available after school). Was thinking about London or anywhere down south, where there’s more facilities available for both of us. I’m a bit from everywhere ( been born in Sweden, Spanish mum, German dad and I grew up in Caracas Venezuela, I’ve been for the past 10 years in this beautiful part of the country but isn’t working for me. If anyone knows someone or somewhere I can contact it would be very helpful. Thank you all.

Vanemeeder · 16/06/2024 23:43

BeeBeaufort · 03/08/2023 12:50

Hello. I'm a Spanish single mother and a teacher moving to the UK around October (I already lived previously in London). My child will go to a nursery this year and I am looking for some West London areas to move in.

I have shared a house before, but having a child is obviously completely different and I understand myself the difficulties of co-living with other family, but I also see the benefits and mostly how much money we could save, so I would like to share a house with other single mum with a child of similar age ideally.

My salary is alright to rent a flat for both of us once he gets into state school, but at least temporally I prefer to share.

Please let me know if you're interested and feel free to share it with anyone interested in it. Thanks in advance.

Hi BeeBeaufort, hope you both are well, just wondering if you had found any place and with whom to shear?

AdoraBell · 18/06/2024 22:45

Not a single parent myself but this sounds like a good idea. Hope you’ve found someone to share with OP ?

Knitgoodwoman · 18/06/2024 22:49

Brilliant idea! This should definitely be more common.

steppinglightly · 22/08/2024 00:51

Beebeaufort...Vanemeder...Did you both find somewhere?
I'm currently living in london but considering a move to Dartington in Totnes and would prefer to share a larger house to form a mumune / supporting household wiith shared meal times etc..and taking turns with childcare sometimes.
My daughter is 3 years old now. My parenting style is very child centred - still co-sleeping at night, breastfeeding on demand and giving my daughter lots of space to do her own thing.
I'm self employed and able to work from home so hence looking at rural places to rent which might work for other single mums who are also interested in self- employment or working from home

Virginie10 · 13/10/2024 19:45

Hello
Single Mum with 10 years old boy, looking for house or flat share South East London, Sidcup, Bexleyheath, Dartford etc

Shakyra79 · 18/04/2025 11:25

Hello,
I am Spanish single mum of 8 years old daughter with settle status to live in the UK although now living in Spain. I am looking for another single mum in London or somewhere else in Uk to share house to be able to move back now right now but if possible in 2026. I would like to work as Teacher Assistant for agency for example and to claim UC when living in the UK. Is any single mum in similar circunstances to me?

Netcurtainnelly · 28/07/2025 13:30

Great Thread.

Netcurtainnelly · 31/07/2025 00:25

Shakyra79 · 18/04/2025 11:25

Hello,
I am Spanish single mum of 8 years old daughter with settle status to live in the UK although now living in Spain. I am looking for another single mum in London or somewhere else in Uk to share house to be able to move back now right now but if possible in 2026. I would like to work as Teacher Assistant for agency for example and to claim UC when living in the UK. Is any single mum in similar circunstances to me?

Did you find anywhere?
I have put a post on the business/entrepreneur section of mumsnet called New Service.

omika · 09/04/2026 20:46

Si vivieras en el sur de Inglaterra me uniría

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