Well I'm pleased to say the chancer turned up with the refund, along with some nonsense story about having two of the items and using the wrong photos. Whatever, we're only down the cost of the diesel so it could have been a lot worse.
curls I'm in a similar situation. A pension so small it's not enough to be worth counting on. I guess something is better than nothing though.
Snuggly my relative has a teacher pension of £2k pcm so hopefully you'll be ok.
Born maybe change to something else nearer the time, if you have to keep working until 68. I can't imagine rushing around as a nurse at that age.