wolf so stressful and probably not what you needed right now huh?
Have told dh I need to rest more because yesterday’s walk to the pub (albeit only 10 minutes each way) really took it out of me.
One load of laundry out on the line. Another in the wash. One more queues up to go in.
Dd and I are staying in today. Waiting for midwives to come and do her heel prick test thingy. So far they aren’t here. It’s annoying because they don’t give you a time. Just say they’re coming on x day.
But to be fair I didn’t want to go out anyway.
I’ve relayed to dh the messages about stitches. And resting. He is being a bit funny really. Whoever said he would change once Dd arrives was right.
He was doing the night feeds. Then got stressed with me the night before last because Ds woke up and then he couldn’t settle Dd.
He had about 3 hours sleep. The. Yesterday when I dared to suggest I have a nap after our lunch he huffed and said that he’d only had 3 hours sleep so he was planning on napping.
I figured ok. Whatever. And said I’d take both littlies out to see my parents for a bit. The minute I said this dh wanted to come too.
When we got home he started mouthing off at me for not letting him rest. you had the opportunity you should have taken it
This morning he’s said similar - going for a lie down. Fair enough.
I was pottering about upstairs. Emptied bins in bathroom and he said he was going to change spare room bedding this evening. I said ok.
Then 10 minutes later huffing and puffing ensued because apparently my saying “ok” to doing the bedding later suggested that j wasn’t happy with him resting and he should be getting on with chores now.
Aaaaaaaaah