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The Friendly Frugaleers; joyfully saving through July

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Wolfcub · 08/07/2018 13:34

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ememem84 · 21/07/2018 18:43

Potential spend alert.

I’ve been thinking about getting qualified as a trust estate practitioner (essentially my job) for a while. But thought it’s involve study and exams. Turns out if I have 10 years experience and a relevant professional qualification I can write 3 essays score over 60% in each and get qualifies. £250 a go. On top of £160 registration fees. Plus £50 submission fee.

I’m speaking to work about it next week. They may fund all or part of it.

Wolfcub · 21/07/2018 18:45

Em I’d consider that a worthwhile investment

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SunnyLikeThursday · 21/07/2018 18:50

Em That sounds good. I'd like to do a music theory exam for nowhere near as financially sound a reason.

Cagliostro · 21/07/2018 19:12

We have just come out for dinner at the local! And I’m making the most of the free WiFi. As I haven’t set up the internet etc yet!

Fluffycloudland77 · 21/07/2018 19:22

Em It sounds an excellent plan.

WreckTangled · 21/07/2018 19:31

Em I would do it!

Cag you deserve dinner out for sure! So pleased you’re in.

Spendy day. £40 fuel £20 food but my friend will give me half back as going to hers for Indian

Pil’s had the dc at ours today and mil hung out, brought back in and folded my washing Grin

I got dd this too (dh paid)

The Friendly Frugaleers; joyfully saving through July
lifelongfrugaleer · 21/07/2018 19:36

Do it em, it's an investment in your career. Even better if work help out

lifelongfrugaleer · 21/07/2018 19:38

I'm biking round a park looking like a weirdo. DS went to the school park and some y6 boys were going to a stunt bit. DS came home and asked if he could go. Add he did the right thing I've come with him. It's too far by himself just yet.
Trying to stay nearby without cramping his 8yr old style. And it's all uphill back home

LonelyOversharer · 21/07/2018 20:09

I love the "just hanging out nonchalantly nearby" parenting thing life my dc are quite used to it!

Spendy spendy! £107!!! in dunelm on 7 pillows (I bought myself a really lovely pillow...just for me. I have hidden it inside a pillowcase (obvs!) so no-one knows is was 3x more expensive than theirs), a set of sharky "big boy" bedding for ds, a pillow case for dd2 (panda print) and dd3 (unicorn print), and a full set including new bottom sheet for our bed.

£35 in lidl, £38 feed shop (got a new spaniel bowl, ferret food etc), £26 tescos (pepsi and cat food, strawbs) and £22 in the range.

Also £56 on cinema tickets for tomorrow. Incredibles 2. I haven't been to a 3d film before. I'm reasonably excited! The dc have been briefed to be ready to leave by noon, in clean tidy clothes. But not where we are going yet. Tea will be either Burger King or costco pizza.

Over the summer we are going to try to do something each sunday. As I have to work every day, the dc have to pull their weight all week for a bit of a treat. Last summer holidays we went to the beach, once. So this is a step up! We will try to get away somewhere next year. I'd love to take them abroad. Might have mentioned an all inclusive trip to Spain. Start easy!

ememem84 · 21/07/2018 20:39

Dh says go for it. So I’ve emailed STEP (society of trust estate practitioners) and have asked for more info.

If work say no I’ll do it anyway. I’ll start in January. I could do it and submit first one in October but it’d be a rush. So I want to get moved house etc first and properly back into the swing of work and a routine.

I’ve seen the essay questions for this year (or the topics anyway) and they seem doable. It’s involve research. Etc. But according to past pupil reviews it’s much easier to put in 3 hours research/writing a week for 12 weeks or so than 3hrs a day study then a 3 hour exam at the end of it. Especially with a littlie.

lifelongfrugaleer · 21/07/2018 20:40

Back home now. They were decent kids and impressed with his stunt bike riding

Sounds like a lovely plan to have something every Sunday. I've just been planning activities for is too.

CremeEggThief · 21/07/2018 20:56

I agree with the others that it sounds like a good investment, Em.
Glad the move went well and you sensibly decided to go out for your tea, Cag.

Spends: £4.80 Costa on my card. I used my points to get one of our drinks free.

Loveabaconsandwich · 21/07/2018 22:08

We saw the Incredibles 2 earlier lonely in 2D. It was great!

QuiteCleanBandit · 21/07/2018 22:48

Can anyone recommend a cleanser must be plain ish ,no smell, to take off my makeup and not be greasy.
Have been using Lush 9-5 which I love but its £10.50 .
I have got Superfacialist Oil for the winter .
I want a very plain simple lotion (not baby lotion)
I have swapped expensive shampoo for Aldi shampoo and conditioner for coloured hair which are currently on offer for 59p.
Best ever !
Keen to find something simple for my face.

SnugglySnerd · 22/07/2018 05:25

Another 5 am start although with a different dc! This one is putting the stacking rings on the er... ring stacker and making me applaud her each time! Cute!

I thought I'd posted yesterday but I can't see it. My phone was playing a bit though so that probably explains it. Yesterday was £16 top up in Aldi. Today should be NSD.

That definitely sounds worthwhile Em. Do it!

I would love to do some studying but not for my career. I want something new to think about not for my current career I mean I'd get out if I could think how

Sunny I did Grade 5 theory as a teenager in order to progress through the practical exams. It was hard and I don't remember much! It would be a good challenge to do as an adult.

Wolfcub · 22/07/2018 06:27

Morning all. Have struggled to sleep all night so I’ve given up. Ocado order put in for the day we return from holiday. Need to finish emptying as many things out of the living room as possible ready for painting.

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Cagliostro · 22/07/2018 07:43

Morning all! I am so happy this morning. You're all going to get bored with me going on about how lucky I feel to live here. :o Seriously though now all our stuff is in I can't believe I was ever worrying about room size! For example our bed is currently across one end of the room and the cot is at the other, we could easily fit another king size bed between with room to spare. Old house had the cot crammed next to the bed so I had to kneel and lean over to get baby out. Also I realised our old kitchen and bathroom could almost fit in the new hallway. Ceilings are higher too especially downstairs.

I just keep marveling at it all. And we get to pay 30% less rent too. Whaaaaat?! :o

I've been up ages and we have nothing in for breakfast. I think DH will be getting a few bits from Tesco (small one so doesn't stick to Sunday hours) as we are having movie night later. Will be spending all day at the old house cleaning/fixing the odd thing we didn't want to bother the landlord with. Must be organised and take the moving notebook which has been a bit neglected this week while we powered through with packing. I would much prefer to stay here and get sorted but the old house must be prioritised this week.

Was lovely yesterday from a family point of view. We had 12 of us here at one point - us lot plus DSS and his GF, DSD1, both SILs, DN and her little boy. All helping move stuff, build furniture (even 3yo DGN learned how to use an Allen key :o) and entertaining the baby. I grew up in a tiny and very boring family where this never would've happened. It was just lovely. :)

Fluffycloudland77 · 22/07/2018 08:14

I'm so happy for you Cag. It's the break your family needed.

Quite I use Simple oil which is basically grapeseed oil. I bought loads on offer at £2 last October and one 150ml bottle lasts about two months and it cuts through make up and sunblock like a hot knife through butter. When my simple stuff run out I'll replace it with organic grapeseed oil with added vitamin E to stop it going rancid.

mammynowanauntyIRL · 22/07/2018 08:38

Cag I'm so happy for you and your family as I was for Girlie last year when she got her own place. We all deserve to live somewhere we're safe, comfortable and happy.

Em definitely go for the study. It sounds like a win win situation and much less torture because you've the experience built up. I often do online courses just because they're interesting. I'd love to do a masters just because and my old college offered one a few years ago which I seriously debated but it'd have be €5k and I might never have used it! Luckily I didn't because my job went on short time hours shortly after & I'd have found it difficult to pay for.

Yesterday I was up for 21.5 hours, first day of our holidays. I'll try think of the spends, mostly food related Grin when I'm extraordinarily tired I eat more! I think the body can do with little sleep or little food but not little of both, has anyone else found this?

Breakfast at airport €7.95, H got his & dcs
Snacks on plane €5.50
Breakfast at F & B £35 incl tip
£8 on locker to storage luggage during day at Edinburgh bus station, equivalent at Waverley train station £62.50, well worth the walk to bus station Grin
Ice cream @ Tesco £6.35
Taxis £16
Dinner £50? H paid with joint funds so I'm not sure
Sainsbury's basic shop for week incl a book for me Smile £49
£523.24 on new accommodation (more about this in a minute)
£20 deposit on iron
£9 towel rental (gave me 4 for price of 3)

We had paid for accommodation with booking.com in November & flights & parking & airport buses too.

Problem #1
parking entry didn't work so we'd to take a fresh ticket, no one on duty at end of intercom until 8am, this was 4.30am, emailed & it's resolved already.

Problem #2
DC's boarding passes wouldn't work, turns out the seats we'd booked were changed by airline & they put both adults at front of plane & both dc at back of plane for some unknown reason. We sat one adult one child at each end of plane while there were two full empty rows behind us? Email not drafted yet to complain, going to hold fire until return journey to see what happens there. I sat with ds, he cried at end of journey because he wanted to go home, air hostess offered to take him thinking he'd want to stay with me, he jumped at the chance Shock

Problem #3 by far the biggest & outing if you know me Grin
We were due to get a pin code for key safe for accommodation by email an hour before check in.
H is bad with numbers so he locked himself out of his phone at about 4am, so we only had mine for photos & directions & the like all day. I'd 18% left by time we got to accommodation.
No pin on check in time so I waited then I emailed to be told that it was in the earlier email it wasn't, then I rang and phone number rang out. Then email said he didn't have record of our booking so I stated booking ref # which was on his earlier email & date he took payment, then next email said refund was on it's way & booking.com would be on to me, now done to 4% then I emailed to ask what was happening & he blamed a leak at property, my phone went dead, we moved us 5 cases into a nearby restaurant ordered dinner & I put my phone on charge.
I emailed asking for proof of refund, nothing back.
I searched booking.com for alternative accommodation. There was some available. This gave me hope, I stayed cool and calm and reasonable although my right hand was shaking. H lost it, threw in towel and suggested booking flights home. I said I wasn't going home, this wasn't our mistake.
Booking.com offered alternative 3.3km out of city, I declined saying it was too far, we'd spent at least an hour a day on buses instead of being in walking distance of places.
I suggested alternatives and then they did, we found an acceptable one but the story got worse. We had to pay for it upfront & get refunded difference by booking.com who would retrieve from original landlord. I didn't bring credit cards with me as everything was prepaid & brought cash for spends. I got details for one cc off my google drive and found the expiry date stored on amazon & could remember ccv but our payment would have to be split between this card & joint account. Booking.com rang new landlord to check if this was possible & discovered that as they'd no booking they decided to do work on property.
Back to drawing board & I suggested a place, it's actually over £200 cheaper & I could make payment from joint account. I did this while I was on hold to booking.com. They didn't seem hopeful for compensation for inconvenience from original landlord, said to keep receipts of costs that happened as a result of change to accommodation, we forgot taxi receipt last night Angry I got one for towels alright but I want him to pay for more than that! He's not getting stung for increased accommodation costs either cos it was cheaper. 4 hours of stress from start to finish. Tipped restaurant £10 for their help, we were there charging phone & eating for almost 2 hours & they were busy.
New accommodation is not the apartment style holiday we wanted.
It's student accommodation with two individual rooms ensuite in shared flat with communal kitchen, it's lovely but there's another family here too, we went out to shop thinking there was no one else here & would watch tv when we came back & the other family were there when we came in, no biggie to me and ds slept pretty much straight away while I read & used my phone to let my family know what had happened. He couldn't do this because his phone is locked AngryGrin
It's not our own place like planned though. Will draft a complaints email when I figure out all the differences it has made to our holiday.

Are ye still with me GrinGrin

mammynowanauntyIRL · 22/07/2018 08:39

I love Superdrug's hot cloth cleanser with vitamin e & it's on 3 for 2 regularly, lasts me approx 3/4 months.

mammynowanauntyIRL · 22/07/2018 08:39

Aldi dupe is nothing like it

Loveabaconsandwich · 22/07/2018 08:46

ShockShock mammy

How you kept your cool throughout all of that??? And with 'DH' too in the mix!

I hope things get better xxx

ememem84 · 22/07/2018 08:47

cag I am so so happy for you!! I’ve sent you a pm.

I’m speaking to work on Tuesday. So will see what they say. I’ve said to dh I’ll do it even if they say no. But I doubt they will. It’s in their interest really. The downside will be that I’ll have to stay for a year for each amount of money they pay out. But I’m happy there so have no plans to leave.

Dh is Skyping mil. I’m drinking tea.

Ds just bit me. Perils of having teefs.

I think we’re going to the beach today. Yay

Fluffycloudland77 · 22/07/2018 08:56

Mammy That's awful. I hope you get compo for all that!

ememem84 · 22/07/2018 08:56

mammy woah what a nightmare! Glad everything is sorted. Ish.

quite would a micelar water work for you? I’m currently using Clinique take the day off make up remover which I really rate. And then a clarinet cleansing lotion. But these are not the frugal options you want.

I’m pretty sure Dm uses baby lotion (the pink one...) to remove make up.